Me: Bride, NOT Unhinged!.

Bride, Unhinged

After reading this…I realized, there’s something to be said for finding your partner-in-crime later in life, after living…and really knowing who you are and what you want.

I can’t even imagine feeling ANY of these feelings about HWMMS. Our decision to get married was the easiest, least stressful most natural progression, the complete OPPOSITE of a LEAP of faith.

Reading this article stressed me out and made me feel sad.

Laurie assures me that the weeks before the wedding are “unbelievably stressful and not at all romantic or fun… It will be okay. He is the right guy and you will still be able to grow and change and still love each other after the wedding.”

Not having fun? FUN IS IMPORTANT! I can’t imagine questioning, even for a millisecond, that HWMMS isn’t the right guy for me. Of course this  is because I’ve been with a bunch of not-so-Mr. Right’s over the years, without that perspective I would be feeling these same thoughts/doubts/questions.

Interesting perspective I guess. I’m not trying to be holier-than-thou here but I do have to say, life is too short to settle for anything that doesn’t make you HAPPY. As soon as I realized HWMMS was THE ONE every single question, what if, doubt, backup plan in my mind disappeared into thin air. (And as most of my friends know, I always ALWAYS had a what if person in the past.)

Nothing has ever felt more right. I wish everyone could feel this way, it’s an amazing place to find yourself.